Add a Little Spice to Your Sex Life

There's a lot of talk out there about long, 'marathon sex', about the need for extensive foreplay to get things going, the need for sex toys and changing positions 35 times to extend the session.  Now, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with extended sexy escapades, they definitely have their place in any sexually active relationship.  However, let’s not forget about the unsung champion, the 'quickie'.

Many men feel that nearly all women don't enjoy these speedy encounters, or that women can't be satisfied by them.  This thought, as unfortunately familiar as it is, is completely wrong.  But on the opposite side of that coin, many women out there feel that asking for a passionate sexy encounter against the fridge or at the office will make them seem easy or dirty.  I beseech you, don't think in this manner.  Men that will look down on a woman for wanting to express her sexuality and her desire to be with him in unorthodox ways are very, very rare.

The average woman, while engaging is self-pleasure, can climax in under three minutes, that same woman can reach the same end in just less than eight minutes through sex.  With the addition of the emotional strength of a quickie in the back of a pickup, and the additional excitement of possibly someone catching you will often help the participants in attaining the end result even more quickly.  This means that in most cases a woman will be plenty happy by end of a fast ‘meeting’, and even if time runs out before either or both get to climax it’s still enjoyable and can add some pleasure to your day.

Sex toys can also improve the ‘quickie’ experience as these encounters aren’t always completely spontaneous.  For couples who are practiced users of sex toys, or anybody who wants to try some new things, keep a mini sex toy or 2 with you next time you take an outing.  Carrying a small, discrete sex toy on you, such as a vibrating bullet or finger vibrator, will give you even more options for fun when the mood hits.  There are sex toys that vibrate (which should typically only be used where there is decent ambient noise) which are easily be used on both women and men, you should also think about using ‘fingers’ which are usually rubber and are put on the end of your finger and almost always have added bumps or ridges for extra pleasure.  In addition, you can find sex toys that are meant for the man’s pleasure such as special hand wraps used to improve stimulation by hand.

There are many popular places to get busy, including:

• On the kitchen table
• In your truck
• In a supply closet
• In a public restroom (a clean one, of course)
• In the outdoors on a hike
• Or wherever the mood hits!

So remember, chiefly for all the bashful ladies out there, open up, let your lover know when you're in need of some love and let those creative juices flow!  Sometimes the best sex is quickie sex in a random, quasi-public place at 1:54 p.m.