The Rabbit Vibrator: An Essential Sex Toy

The rabbit vibrator, or as it's sometimes referred to, the dual action vibrator is a relatively new addition to the sex toy line up.  In fact it hasn't been around for much for than a decade or so.  The rabbit vibrator has two distinct parts, the shaft that resembles a phallus and a clitoral stimulator that juts out from the base.  The rabbit name comes from the fact that the clitoral section often resembles two rabbit ears.

Rabbit vibrators are very powerful sex toys for women, not only can the clitoral vibrations can get very strong on some models but the shaft, or at least a portion of it usually rotates.  The rotating portion of the shaft is usually larger than the rest of is often covered in bumps or some other stimulating extra which is designed specifically for extra g-spot pressure and stimulation.

Due to this extra stimulation there are some women who find dual action vibrators to be too strong.  Rabbit vibrators are definitely not for women who have extra sensitive clitorises.

Types of rabbit vibrators:

There is a wide variety of dual action vibrators out there, from the very basic and inexpensive to the incredibly advance, costing well over $100.

The simple and cheap versions, which are recommended for those who've never tried a rabbit vibrator, tend to have only one motor and no shaft rotation.  You set the level of vibration you want and you get that in both the shaft and the clitoral stimulator.  Although this is very basic it should provide you with some knowledge of whether or not you should spend a bit more for one with more options.

The most expensive rabbit vibrators can be very creative and advanced.  They usually have more than just a single motor and thus have a practically infinite number of vibration, pulsation and rotation settings.  These also have a much higher quality shaft, durable, long lasting and designed for the perfect stimulation.

Wireless sex toys are becoming very popular these days, the wireless rabbit vibrator is no exception.  With the wireless controller that you hold in your hand there is less weight and bulk in the actual toy.  This allows for more options in solo play and it provides couples a whole new arena to explore.

The clitoral stimulator on these rabbit vibrators were originally shaped like two rabbit ears, even though this tradition is still very popular, there are now many different shapes to choose from.  They range from simple, rounded tops to flames to animal shapes such as dolphins, monkeys or various insects.  Whatever it is that you're into you can find a rabbit vibrator with a shape you will enjoy.

Typically rabbit vibrators are made from basic sex toy materials such as jelly, silicone, plastic and rubber, however with newer technologies coming out in realism, many of these sex toys have been upgraded.  Some of the newer, realistic feel materials are referred to by their commercial names, such as Fururotic, AquaGel or Jel-Lee.

So if you like sex toys and enjoy strong sensations you should definitely consider trying a new rabbit vibrator.

Intro to BDSM: Flogging

One of the best known and most popular pieces of bondage gear is the flogger.  Floggers have been used throughout history as a top-notch torture device, however it has taken a bit of a softer turn and become an incredibly erotic tool for use in BDSM.  Used alone or with other bondage gear such as nipple clamps, this tool should not be underestimated and should always be respected.

An experienced dominant makes flogging look graceful, smooth and even easy, but don't be fooled, it takes a lot of practice to be able to wield a flogger with a true sense of accuracy and power.  Anybody new to BDSM or inexperienced with a flogger and easily cause sensations that the submissive doesn't want or even do bodily damage if not careful.  BDSM safety should be thoroughly researched and learned before engaging in any of its forms or using any type of bondage gear, especially floggers.  However I won't be discussing that here, this article is specifically for floggers, their varieties and how to choose one.

The whip itself is split into two distinct sections, the tails, or the 'business end', and the handle.  The handle can be set up however you choose but the tails must be chosen with care as there are many different factors that will affect the outcome of each strike.

To start off I will discuss some of the various materials that are used when making floggers.

Leather:  Probably the most used of all the various materials, leather is found in all types of bondage gear, not just floggers.  Although cowhide is the most widely used type of leather, you can also find Deerskin, Moose, Elk and Buffalo leather.  Each type of leather does have it's own unique characteristics but the manner in which it was tanned and it's cut are much greater factors in determining the type of whip that is created.

Rubber:   Many floggers will say that rubber creates a much more severe style of flogger.  As a general rule this is true, but in the end it all depends on how it is made, it's style and how it's used.

Chain:  Not very common, and with good reason, floggers made of metal can easily cause serious damage, should be used with great caution and only by those truly experienced in BDSM.

After you choose the type of material you want your flogger to be made out of you then need to decide on its style.

There are four main factors contribute to the sensations that the flogger produces on impact:

Width of the tails:  If your submissive prefers a sharper 'bite' when being struck then you'll want a thinner tail, however if a deeper thud is desired then a thicker tail should be sought.

Tails:  The number of tails attached has a large influence over it's feel, typically the more tails there are the less of a sting is produced.  Most floggers have around 15-25 tails attached.

The tips: Pointed tips cause sting, forked tips cause double the sting, where as rounded and square tips are more gentle.

The tail length:  Tail length tends to be the least important factor in the sensations that the flogger will create but it's important none-the-less.  The big thing to consider is that when using long whips the tip will be moving at a much greater speed with less effort, plus you need to pay more attention that you don't cause 'wrapping'.  Wrapping happens when the tips of the flogger 'wrap' around the shoulder or leg and snap the skin on the other side, when this happens the tips are moving at a very high speed and cause not only extra pain but can easily damage the skin.  The average length for the tails on a flogger is 16-24 inches.

There is an incredibly wide variety of bondage gear out there and flagellation devices are no exception.  Take your time when picking a product but you should also try out a variety of styles and keep them all within easy reach for when the need arises.

Four Simple Steps To Better Self Pleasure

 

Self pleasure can be great fun and with a little practice women can find greater satisfaction from their alone time. There are many tools and techniques that can enhance your self pleasure expertise. The self pleasure tips discussed below maybe already known by some however a few maybe new to you and require a little flexibility.

1. Vibrators can be big help as they will allow you lessen some of the manual labour involved so that you can concentrate more on the enjoyment. The use of a vibrator can provide precise, powerful physical stimulation to the clitoris and gives the user a lot of command over the excitement.

2. Water can really help self-pleasure and assist a women learn more about herself. A good tip is to lie back with your legs spread in a bath with a shower hose and then directing the stream of water gently on to your clitoris. Start slowly and then play with the pressure, then pulsation and finally the warmth. If you don’t have a shower a trickier but possible method is to slide your bum over the drain so that your legs are up in the air and the genitals under the tap or a little bit easier use Jacuzzi jets if you have them.

3. Why not try rubbing against a something perhaps. Suggested items to use would be a soft pillow, a house hold object or vibrator.

4. Speaking of dildos they really can be a benefit to a girl when she is self-pleasuring because they are a delightful complement to clitoral masturbation because they offer the completeness of penetration but can also be used to incite the G-Spot.

Life is all about experimentation and discovering more about whom you are and why stop when it comes to exploring your own body. Introduce a vibrator for greater fun and fufilment. One survey in a glossy magazine stated that 25% of all professional women between 25-34 years of age carry a vibrator in their bag at all times.

The body of a woman is a complicated thing. The female body is complex with many erogenous zones so it requires a little experimentation to understand how to get the most satisfaction from self pleasure time. Ladies an orgasm happens between the ears and not the legs. It is up to every girl individually to understand her own body. If she cannot then how can she expect her partner to when it comes to love making. If a woman wants satisfaction then experimentation through self pleasure is the only way for her to ever truly find the ultimate climax. To learn more visit our site self pleasure for women.

Dirty Talk - How To Pitch It Just Right Every Time

Dirty talk normally falls into one of two areas, depending on the persons involved.

Either the notion of dirty talk leaves you quite expectant, your heart a flutter and your libido quickly rising - or your relationship thoughts turn towards closure and the nicest way possible for you to extract yourself in the shortest amount of time possible.

Whichever of these two factions you fall into, hold your horses a second before jumping in. You need to check a couple of things first and make an informed decision before you react and potentially ruin something good.

If the thought of dirty talk, as suggested to you by a lover, brings a small tingle to certain areas and fills you full of anticipation, all well and good. But you still need to work out and be confident of your partners intentions and limits. You need to know where to begin.

If you are an ex merchant sea person who swears with more than 4 choice expletives when just asking for the salt to be passed, they're unlikely to be hugely surprised by you suddenly vocalising your sexual wants and needs in forthright and emphatic detail. But if you are the epitomy of innocent church mouse who would never dare to say boo to a duck, let alone a goose, you are more than likely to confuse and worry them if you suddenly start forth with a stream of verbals normally found in the books stacked carefully on the highest shelf that are wrapped in flame proof plastic and are covered in warnings!

Work your audience would be the best way of putting it. Work out in your mind what level you think your partner would respond to, what they would find enticing and not be thrown by. Then start talking dirty at a level just below this and work up to it gradually. Think of them as a potential deer in the headlights, liable to startle and flee faster than you can brake!

If they respond well or even seem bored and deflated by your starting pitch, notch it up a bit by throwing in some more descriptive terms for body parts, gently getting coarser and more carnal as you go along.

If you fall into the category of relationship abandoner as soon as something so intimate/wrong/filthy/unusual is hurled at you - stop and consider something first.

Your lover has just suggested or asked you to join in on something that is intimate, private and trusting. The likelihood that they had to steal themselves to ask and that they have gone out on a limb to be this open and honest with you is without question.

Before you slam the relationship door in their face - stop and think about how much that shows of their commitment and feelings to you. They have just trusted you with an insight into their "inner" self, they've opened up and shared something, however indirectly, with you that not many would.

So before you react badly and take offence over something that really isn't worth getting huffy over - stop and think. Is this something that you could work on with them? After all, if they trust you enough to ask, the least you can do is trust them enough to be honest, to explain that you know nothing about this but that you are willing to try and learn - if they'll help you along the way? If it leaves you a bit cold and feeling wrong, explain that to them and talk about it.

After all - how do you know for sure you don't like something and won't enjoy it - until you have tried it?

Your Own Personal Lubricant Choice

In terms of knowing which kind of lubricant is the best in which condition can be gather from interpreting the uses on the bottle. If you are a new user of personal lubricants or not even sure if you really need them, this time you have to read on to be able to know how to decide on which personal lubricant that will be best for you. For most of us, need to stop for a while from foreplay to put personal lubricants can be serious scenario and can even end up immediately you and your partner start to enjoy. Having an open mind and recognizing the fact that personal lubricant can be able to put an extra satisfaction for you and your partner’s intimate leisure interest, you will not feel uneasy about using them.

 

There are many instances when a personal lubricant can come in handy. Taking breastfeeding right now, at the same time experiencing changes on your body due to aging and taking birth control pills, you may want to “lube up” to avoid friction during intercourse. Or you may just take a while to “warm up” and a little personal lubricant could allow you to move on to more enjoyable activities with your partner instead of focusing so much time on foreplay. Moreover, if you decided to use adult toys, either with your partner or just by yourself, it is firmly suggested to make use of personal lubricants, you just have to make sure that the toy will be using is compatible with it.

 

Many types of personal lubricants are available for use and include:

 

• Lubricants to be used with a condom: these are generally thicker lubricants that won’t feel sticky or tight during penetration. Make certain to use one that is secure to use with the kind of condoms you will going to use, like the ones that are water-based so it would take full advantage of the usefulness of the condom.
• Lubricants for oral sex: these are available on different kind of scents and flavors with not so thick and tacky.
• Lubricants for anal sex: these generally have a chemical/compound that helps to desensitize this area before any intimate activities to help increase pleasure during this method of intercourse
• Lubricants to use with sex toys: these generally add that extra lubrication needed to make toy use more enjoyable, but you should also be sure to use one that is safe to use with the toy you will be using. Various sex toys are composed of different materials, and it is advisable to apply lubricant like water-based lubrication for example that will not break your toy.
• Male lubricants: these are normally use for males who do masturbation solo and should have additional lube to prevent friction. When using your favorite sex toys with lubricant during masturbation, and again, make sure that it is compatible to be able to use with your toy without damaging it.

 

All in all, personal lubricant shouldn’t be viewed as a mood stopper, but in fact as a way of increasing the pleasure for both you and your partner. Bear in mind to place it an easy to reach place because when the moods strike you know where to get it simply or else it will kill the mood. Be entertained and be reminded as well to take a look at the directions on how to use the personal lubricant that you chose.

Bondage 101: Use and Safety of Nipple Clamps

Nipple clamps have become very popular with both men and women.  They range from very gentle to quite extreme, more extreme than most people can endure.  Nipple clamps also come in many shapes and sizes some with various accessories to increase the sensations felt when wearing them.

Nipple clamps and their use

Before using nipple clamps make sure to keep in mind to not limit their use to the nipples alone.  There are plenty of great places on the human body that are just craving to be clamped, most notably the genital region on both men and women and on women the clitoris can be a wonderful place for some more gentle clamps.

But for now let's stick with the nipples, before clamping your nipples be sure that they're nice and erect.  The easiest way to achieve this is to rub them, for many even the right thoughts can provide them with a pair of erect nipples.  But for some the process might call for some extra help, in this case you should consider ice cubes, they do wonders for exciting the nipples.

Many nipple clamps are adjustable, you can change the amount of pressure on the clamped area, this is great for beginners and those with sensitive nipples.  If you like more pressure but not the pinch you should try to get as much flesh as possible.  The more flesh you get the wider the area that the clamp is putting pressure on, thus reducing or eliminating that sharp pinch.  Once the nipple is clamped there is a whole new world of sensations awaiting you.  Anything can be used to further stimulate the nipple, including feathers, fingers, tongues, a light whipping or, my favorite, a mini vibrator.  Lightly touching a small vibe onto the tip of a clamped nipple can provide some absolutely wonderful sensations.

There are nipple clamps that are referred to as 'endurance clamps', these are often very similar to other clamps except for the fact that they are not adjustable.  This means that if they're on your nipple then they are squeezing with everything they've got, there's no light setting with this type.  Another type of nipple clamp for those more extreme users are those clamps with teeth.  These clamps tend to not have any extra rubber or padding and as you can probably tell, these little guys can create some pretty hardcore sensations, so if you're at all gentle, you might want to stay away from these.

Nipple clamp safety tips

Much of the pleasure of nipple clamps comes from the fact that the clamp cuts of a certain amount of circulation to the tip, this causes very sensitive nerves, it also means that you should probably not leave the clamp on for much more than 15 minutes at a time.  Plus you should probably be aware that the removal of the nipple clamp is usually the most 'intense' part of the whole thing, in fact it can be downright painful as the blood goes rushing back.

Just like all sex toys out there you should clean your nipple clamps regularly, they can get dirty and nobody wants to put on dirty clamps.  Besides, who wants a nipple infection?  Not me.

Don't forget, nipple clamps are not for women only!  Due to the fact that most women's nipples are a bit larger than men's nipple clamps are often a bit easier to use on women, but men's nipples need attention too.

How To Get The Most From Self Pleasure

Self-pleasure is good for you and is considered to have actual health benefits. Self-pleasure is great as well girls; you get to do it by yourself, on your own terms, you can also experiment to find out what you like and what turns you on. Unfortunately growing up many women are raised with little information about our genitals, sex and self-pleasuring which does not really come naturally for everyone. The secret to bringing each woman to orgasm is different. Women can climax through clitoral stimulation, vaginal penetration or G-Spot stimulation. There is no wrong way self-pleasure we are all different. This article is geared to give the reader the tools to get the most from self pleasure.

1. Setting the mood

If you are going to get the most from the experience you must give yourself plenty of time. I would advise that you give yourself at least half an hour. Ladies you have to unwind and be relaxed why not take a bath or open a bottle of wine. It is as much about state of mind as it is about technique ladies. Next make sure that you can’t be disturbed. That means turning off the mobile/cell, locking the door and if you have children send them round a neighbours. The next step is to position yourself in way that you feel comfortable and relaxed in. Women generally start out on their backs, legs bent and spread apart, with their feet on the ground. Make sure that you have plenty of support and cushioning.

2. Fantasize/romanticize for self-pleasure

This is your alone time and recalling a past sexual encounter or elaborate on a favourite sexual fantasy can really set the mood. If you need a little of bit of help getting started then read an erotic story, look at a sexy publication or even indulge in a bit of adult entertainment. Ladies this is you time anything goes as long as it get the pulse racing.

3. Explore all parts of your body

It amazing but a lot of women really don’t know their own bodies at all. Experiment and run your hands all over your body and if some thing feels good then linger there and just enjoy the feeling it creates. Look at your genitals in a mirror (especially if you are unfamiliar with it) and caress the different parts to see what feels good to you. There are the inner and outer labia, your clitoris, your vagina and your perineum.

4. Don’t be afraid to play around to find what is best for you

Ladies get those fingers working; use one or two fingers and start to stoke different parts of you vulva and remembering to stimulate your clitoris and labia. Find the rhythm that works for you this means experimenting with pressure, speed and motion. I suggest placing fingers either side of the clitoris and stoking up and down, or placing two fingers on the clitoral hood and rubbing in a circular motion.

5. Life is about surprises

Unless you are willing to open up your mind girls and let yourself be comfortable with your own skin and trying everything you will not get the most from your own body. When self-pleasuring try different types of touch: stroke, tickle, knead or why not even try gently pulling your genitals. Anything goes ladies. The options are open to use one or several fingers, the palm of the hand even your knuckles. Don’t be afraid it will only take you to a better place.

6. It is a long and winding road

The thought of reaching that climax is all part of the fun. Imagining riding the wave wil help to heighten the sexual tension. You can add to that by enhancing the excitement yourselves girls. Learn to hold on to your sexual excitement by building up and then reducing temporarily the stimulus. Try to learn what your body is to communicate to you. Your own body will tell you when you have the right tempo or when a certain tickle feels good.

7. Remain relaxed

As the sexual energy starts to build it is critical to let it take you and not to fight it. Breathing deeply rather than holding your breath will help as will rocking your pelvis as in intercourse will help. I would also suggest rhythmically clenching and releasing your PC muscle (if you are looking for vaginal penetration then a dildo will help).

8. Ride the wave
At the start of your climax is key to continue to excite yourself through to orgasm. The body start to get more sensitive so lighten up during those first receptive seconds but keep going to enjoy the pleasurable aftershocks. The first orgasm may feel like a blip or a explosion however the more you practice the more range you will develop and understand.

Self-pleasuring is obviously a very personnel thing. The way forward is through further exploration and practice because it will lead to more enjoyable orgasms and self knowledge of what works best for turning you on. Experimentation through self-pleasure will not only lead to personnel self satisfaction but can only benefit your sex life as you work out what you like and then pass on that information to your partner. Please visit our site self pleasure for women to learn more about the power of your own body.