There is a simple tip that can really transform a relationship.
Most men know that men and women are different. Men are more focused on doing things and solving problems and women are more in their feelings and emotions.
For men to get a lot of sex, there must usually be a good heart connection for the women to want to open sexually.
So, what can the average guy do in this area?
But first some background.
Many of us have been brought up with a lot of criticism from our parents. Most of us have had little compliments during our upbringing. We learn form our early life and continue the same patterns in our relationships. We get into a blame mode and do not take responsibility for our own emotions.
We do not use the power of compliments.
Try this simple exercise with partner. Every day find something of value to compliment in your partner. Maybe it is something simple like taking the garbage bin out. Or how she is dressed.
Make at least 5 compliments each day.
Now, both make this commitment and see if you get closer together. Most women need to feel a emotional connection before making love.
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Next make a commitment to remove blame from our relationship. This is a challenging commitment but possible if you work at it. If you partner does something that challenges you, instead of attacking or criticizing, just say what you are feeling inside and see what response you get.
It is possible to transform a relationship that is in blame mode to a more conscious relationship based on praise. These types of relationships are filled with growth and great sex.
Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. To improve your lovemaking go to Free Male and Female Sex Sex Tips
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